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A valid concern? Or planted opposition? — It seems every day that I see another person ranting about electric cars. I see Facebook posts of electric cars plugged into sockets and the sockets are plugged into coal-burning electrical plants. Or people mocking electric cars running out of energy and having to be helped by a gasoline-burning vehicle…

#3 — The key to an infinite experience — One way to take the passion out of lovemaking is to come into it with goals in mind. It seems natural to gave the goal of ejaculation or orgasm. But these goals are very limited. These are the least interesting aspects of sexual intimacy. These are simply goals of our…

It’s never about positions and tricks… it’s totally an inside job — When we first discover tantra, we hear of orgasms that last for hours, incredible intimacy, and the possibility of living in a total bliss-state — all of the time. But how do we get there? Are there books we can read? What positions do we use? The reality is that…

What would you do if anything was possible? — We are in a time of great transition from the dark to the light. For millennia, we have lived with such a strange darkness all around us that has made us believe that we are small, insignificant, and that our lives are basically about toil and struggle. We have had…

Our love is so intense and magnetic… but we must remain ourselves — From the first sight I knew this was different. Matched in our lovemaking Desires, passions, and intensity, He is the yang to my yin. We feel like we’ve known each other forever And made love thousands of times. So, it’s natural to want to merge our lives Become as one As our ancestors have…

What if “time marching on” is simply an illusion? — “People like us who believe in physics know that the distinction between past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion.” ~ Albert Einstein As I sat down this morning to do my morning journalling, I began to write “February 8” but then stopped. What was this date? It…

#2 - Every move brings us closer or further apart — Intimacy is the total opening of our hearts to each other. This requires a safe place to be open. Kindness opens us and brings us closer. One single act without kindness changes everything. When couples study tantra with me, their first assignment is to be 100% kind to each other…

I would like to know what you think… — Today I got a text message from Bell Canada saying that I overpaid on my last bill… I don’t have an account with Bell Canada. I get emails every day from people trying to sell me everything to do with sexual nonsense. I get called regularly from someone posing as…

Why are we trying to look inhuman? — Yesterday, I saw a billboard for microdermabrasion. I assume that they chose the woman in the picture because she is beautiful. But the first thing I thought when I saw it was, “Why would they use a mannequin for a billboard?” Her skin was so smooth that she looked like…