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What would you do if anything was possible? — We are in a time of great transition from the dark to the light. For millennia, we have lived with such a strange darkness all around us that has made us believe that we are small, insignificant, and that our lives are basically about toil and struggle. …

Our love is so intense and magnetic… but we must remain ourselves — From the first sight I knew this was different. Matched in our lovemaking Desires, passions, and intensity, He is the yang to my yin. We feel like we’ve known each other forever And made love thousands of times. …

What if “time marching on” is simply an illusion? — “People like us who believe in physics know that the distinction between past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion.” ~ Albert Einstein As I sat down this morning to do my morning journalling, I began to write “February 8” but then stopped. What was this date? It…

#2 - Every move brings us closer or further apart — Intimacy is the total opening of our hearts to each other. This requires a safe place to be open. Kindness opens us and brings us closer. One single act without kindness changes everything. When couples study tantra with me, their first assignment is to be 100% kind to each other…

I would like to know what you think… — Today I got a text message from Bell Canada saying that I overpaid on my last bill… I don’t have an account with Bell Canada. I get emails every day from people trying to sell me everything to do with sexual nonsense. …

Why are we trying to look inhuman? — Yesterday, I saw a billboard for microdermabrasion. I assume that they chose the woman in the picture because she is beautiful. But the first thing I thought when I saw it was, “Why would they use a mannequin for a billboard?” Her skin was so smooth that she looked like…

#1 - It’s more than just connecting souls — One of the main practices in tantric intimacy is to eye-gaze with our partner. Why? Why is this such an important part of genuine connection? Building Trust When our eyes connect, we cannot lie. Our truth shines through and offers itself to our partner. We are often taught to lie in relationships…

What happens when we no longer have poorly-paid servants? — Here in Canada, Tim Hortons (our biggest donut/coffee store chain) is having to shorten their hours due to being unable to find people to work there. Why? …

If leaving isn’t right, then what can you learn? — When someone asks, “What do I do if I’m in a relationship with a narcissist?”, the number one answer they’ll get is “LEAVE”! There are more good reasons to leave than stay… and yet, sometimes leaving doesn’t seem quite right. Perhaps we feel called to stay for reasons that are…